• Kyrgizion@lemmy.world
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    Damn I remember this post from when I was on 4chan still. OP did provide links and his story was 100% true. The girl wasn’t ugly, just kinda plain but almost every pic of her somehow exuded despair, and that was honestly offputting (except for the kind of creeps who get off on that I reckon).

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    Yeah my husband seems to think onlyfans is easy money, like I could just post a nude and money would come rolling in magically, talks about how much big earners are making on YouTube too, but hustling like that is so much harder than having a job, you have to be organized and ambitious and then for every one person making thousands, there are many thousands of people making pennies.

    It’s so much easier to just have a job.

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    I know it’s probably fake, but I low key think this is the experience of most women, online or not. Men like to think women can just ring a bell and get dick and companionship, judging off of, like, the cream of the crop of women and their (apparent) track record. It’s not always that easy, especially if you aren’t attractive. A lot of men don’t fuck for personality.

    Obligatory not all men, yes there are shallow women, and yes it is also hard for men to find partners, and yes they have their own struggles and pressures that make their struggle unique to them.

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      I mean, they probably could, but what’s available to them isn’t exactly the cream of the crop either.

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        I imagine it’s similar to the gay male experience - I could get a hookup any time of day easily, but the guys aren’t relationship material.

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    Lil tiddy supermarket goth girl sounds cute tbh, or maybe I just have a type.

    Anyway, girls like this can be a real gem to find if you’re a gooner. Their small fan base means if you’re not a creep there’s a chance of genuine interaction. She’ll probably take request and if she likes you might even send you free content.

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    Anon experiences empathy for once in their miserable life.
    One of the few legit greentexts. lol

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    There are a lot of people whod appreciate her features so its surprising she didnt get any attention. Maybe anon made up the story and is actually into men?

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      Right, but aren’t those girls in it for the attention? The thrill? Sounds like she’s not getting any attention, either.

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        There’s a difference between none and some.

        She gets some attention, not much, but some.

        We call it nothing at all, even if it’s not nothing. It’s obvious why we do it, it’s the absence of respect. But we are technically wrong.

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          People’s views are so skewed by social media numbers. If 10 people came up to you in one day and complemented you, it would probably be the best day of your life…

          It’s like people complaining that Lemmy groups only have, using this group as an example, 3.1k users/day and are therefore not worth participating in (these are Reddit arguments, but still).

          Somehow people have developed this intuition that unless you have literally millions of interactions then you’re practically invisible. If you were hanging out at a park with 3,100 people you wouldn’t say that it was a small group, but on the Internet this is seen as a tiny number of people, hardly worth mentioning.

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            While we agree, I want to clarify this:

            Lemmy groups only have, using this group as an example, 3.1k users/day

            That still means this platform is clearly not anywhere near challenging the big ones, and therefore not really having a big impact on improving the internet the way I want it to. I am especially annoyed by the idiots who want to keep Lemmy small.

            On a personal level, 10 is a small crowd and three thousand is a lot of people. But when talking about platforms and impact, it’s not much at all.

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      And it wasn’t the grinches heart that grew three sizes that day…

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        You’re saying that the only girls who have onlyfans are those who don’t truly have the stomach for it? In reality, there’s a lot of overlap between fetish communities and OF

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    The funny thing is that if this greentext linked this girl OnlyFans, she would gain tons of views just out of pity.

    Some of these would even stick around afterwards.

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    Imagine equating selling of ones dignity to selling ones pics.

    Top Victorian mind, after the morphine clears.

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      Someone linked what they think was the person in a comment, at best they went to a lot of effort for very little in return.

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    Know your worth and know where you are valued.

    This can sound really deep, but it works for shallow too. I’m sorry girl, but the whore market is saturated and very competitive.

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      Not without a sob-story from the girl. Doubt she did it for the money. Someone with the time and commitment to doing this(if not energy or enthusiam) she demonstrated would make better money doing just about anything else.

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          I mean, I said “if not … enthusiasm” because the only evidence of enthusiasm I’ve seen is the reported volume of her content. The link I followed from a comment here was lacking in quantity, and her pics exuded apathy.

          That said, you seem to be assuming she wouldn’t have a day-job or any will to survive, and stating it like common knowlege or even wisdom. I’m not here to correct you, but only because I can’t be bothered. Just … damn. Whatever you say.

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    Ah, another classic case of the wild goonette lost in cyberspace which has yet to be found. In due time.

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    It is a rule of thumb in businesses that 80% fail within 5 years. It is the same with anything who are looking for fame and success; only 20% succeed. And even within those 20%, only like 10% are considered in the A-list.

    Anyhow, I am curious why this girl felt the need to expose herself. Is it for money? Does she feel insecure and needs validation? Or both?