• I_Has_A_Hat@lemmy.world
    191·
    2 小时前

    Who’s in the wrong here?

    Everyone in this thread who is too stupid to realize this is fake rage bait.

  • BeardededSquidward@lemmy.blahaj.zone
    101·
    2 小时前

    Grey didn’t value Green’s time, even stated someone better came along. Green responded with shade in response for this lack of respect, Grey had a crash out because her lesser choice had teeth.

  • chunes@lemmy.world
    191·
    3 小时前

    I don’t get why people are confused about this.

    Grey was horrible human being first. Green’s reply was a response that horribleness. It’s not like green was genuinely waiting to spring that.

    …probably.

  • tomi000@lemmy.world
    121·
    3 小时前

    I mean its 95% fake but it doesnt really make a difference for discussing it as if it was real.

    I think it deoends on the relationship between the two and the kind of meeting they had planned. If its a date and grey bailed for an other date, thats really shitty. If it was a casual meetup between friends and grey bailed for a dating opportunity, its not that shitty and green was a bit rude with the follow-up, but again depends on their relationship and how they usually communicate. In any case, the last few messages are completrly overboard.

    • Rob T Firefly@lemmy.worldEnglish
      1·
      2 小时前

      Maybe they were pals and Green was saying “thank God” in a good-natured “yay, you finally got a date, happy for you bruh” manner but the response went right over Grey’s head and led Grey to make a total ass of themself.

    • Djehngo@lemmy.world
      101·
      3 小时前

      Grey is already out of the situation by message 3, everything after that is just lashing out due to a bruised ego.

      • BarneyPiccolo@lemmy.cafeEnglish
        31·
        2 小时前

        Their ego was flying high, having choices, only to come crashing down when one was relieved to get rid of her, LOL. Now she’ll go on her “opportunity” date, and be all sullen and pouty, and ruin that one, too.

        Hilarious.

  • But_my_mom_says_im_cool@lemmy.world
    48·
    8 小时前

    I hate people now. Nobody wants to keep their commitments. You can invite people to an event and they will all say yes, until a more enticing thing comes along and the flake on you last minute. If you say yes, be there, tell the other person “sorry I already made plans that day” like an adult

    • Pat_Riot@lemmy.today
      4·
      2 小时前

      I for one will not invite you for anything if I don’t want to do it with you. I also will not accept an invitation to do anything that I don’t want to do with you. I greatly enjoy my own company and have a lot of things I love to do by myself. More people would be happier if they would learn to like themselves and found some hobbies.

    • ExLisper@lemmy.curiana.net
      16·
      5 小时前

      For me the issue is that everyone is always busy.

      Me: hey, how about we meet next Friday

      Person1: I can only do Sunday from 17 to 19

      Person2: I can only do Saturday

      Person3: I can do Sunday but from 19 to 21

      Person4: I can only do the Friday after that

      Or even better, they take 5 days to reply and in the end say something came up.

      But once I manage to find the one date that fits most people and plan something people do show up.

        • tomi000@lemmy.world
          3·
          3 小时前

          You mean doodle? It still exists but since polls are literally built into every messaging app now, its obsolete. It could be relevant if you have a one-time meeting with people who dont know each other and dont have a common messaging app.

        • ExLisper@lemmy.curiana.net
          2·
          4 小时前

          Don’t remember the name but I used it couple of times in corpo settings. I think it weird that we have to organize meetings with couple of friends the same way we organized team buildings. I mean, weekends are for resting. Why everyone has everything booked months in advance? I spend every weekend actively but I don’t have a lot of plans that I can’t drop to meet someone.

    • OrgunDonor@lemmy.worldEnglish
      8·
      4 小时前

      The Lmao negates this. This is definitely a thank god I don’t have to go on a date with you.

      • texture@lemmy.worldEnglish
        16·
        3 小时前

        “thank god i didnt waste my time going on a date with someone who would treat me like this lmao”

        seems totally reasonable to me

  • gigastasio@sh.itjust.works
    53·
    4 小时前

    We can’t know for certain based on one single conversation. We don’t know the dynamic between these two. We don’t know the intent behind the “thank god” comment. We don’t know if the response was an overreaction, something that’s been building between these two, or what.

    It wouldn’t be smart to make a judgement in this case because we lack full context.

  • Akasazh@lemmy.worldEnglish
    552·
    8 小时前

    Greens response could’ve meant (s)he had a busy day at work and was glad to put their feet up. The bluntness met have been unintended.

    Grey then exploded and made it a problem, showing that green actually dodged a bullet.