I genuinely feel like no matter what I do, psychopaths can always pretty much immediately defect me as the perfect victim.

I think it’s partly because I’m ugly, partly because I’m sensitive, and they can just tell I’m a weak person.

It’s making my life a living hell, no matter how hard I try I just can’t blend it, I can’t force myself to act a certain way, it’s exhausting to me

Help…

  • CheeseToastie@lazysoci.alEnglish
    1·
    2 days ago

    Workplace ones are awful, there’s loads of research showing bullies often go into management. Best way I’ve found to manage it is not to tell anyone I work with anything about me so they have nothing to use against me.

    Have you got much support in your life? If you’re missing a dad’s support you can find it at !dadforaminute@lemmy.world it’s great and supportive dad posters.

    • jlyndby@lemmy.worldOP
      21·
      2 days ago

      I tried that but they always find a way to turn everyone against me. They hate my guts

      • CheeseToastie@lazysoci.alEnglish
        41·
        2 days ago

        I hear you. Counselling can really help, it helps you take control of your own life and reduce the amount of problems you have.