I genuinely feel like no matter what I do, psychopaths can always pretty much immediately defect me as the perfect victim.
I think it’s partly because I’m ugly, partly because I’m sensitive, and they can just tell I’m a weak person.
It’s making my life a living hell, no matter how hard I try I just can’t blend it, I can’t force myself to act a certain way, it’s exhausting to me
Help…
Try building and keeping boundries. You should also prioritise yourself and your well being. I’ve honestly been targetted by them and they tried ruining my life (doxing, calling my employer, etc).
if someone is abusing you or not respecting your boundries, block that person and cut them out of your life. It will be hard but worth it in the long run.
try not to mix friend groups. This will make it harder for the person to manipulate you through mutuals.
i’ve noticed that there’s a lot more of these kinds of people online. I think you’d find it safer to interact with people in person if possible.
I hope this helps.