affection, companionship, attention, care, empathy, collaboration, someone in whom to confide, someone with whom to push through hardships, partnership, entertainment

Those are just givens? It’s not what I personally bring to the table that’s just what relationships are for. Empathy is part of personality imo though

Unaddressed trauma

This one’s kinda weird, I don’t agree that that would make someone undateable

be someone you find interesting

I used to think this until I realized no one is that special. I’m only interesting to someone who might be interested. And that’s normal, you can’t always be interesting to everyone.

put yourself out there with your interests

I have too many interests and too little time. Honestly I guess I’m just not in a place to date right now. Still doesn’t stop me from getting irritated about it, and people’s grim questions.

I mean I’m doing a lot of stuff but like, none of them are particularly interesting to the average person I would say. For example, any time I’d share something with my ex he would tell me to get over myself and that I have “main character syndrome” meaning I think I’m more important than I am, and that I don’t really matter much. I kind of agree. Nobody really matters much. I like sharing my feelings and thoughts and ideas, but I’m starting to realize no one really cares about them. Which is why I think I’m better off alone. Maybe I just am an uninteresting stupid person.

I’ve never self reflected before, thanks for the tidbit

I mean I’m fine with myself but I’m not about to try to convince someone to date me. If they need to be convinced I don’t want them

Yeah, I understand how that can be annoying

Oh, I thought you meant US national parks are far from the best haha

I mean it’s not a personal attack on anyone, I’m well aware definitely not all Americans think america is the best. Not even saying it’s super common, was just giving an idea as to why OP might have this perception

I have noticed it’s less common to travel outside of America. This makes sense though because america is huge and has a lot of places to visit.

Where are the best national parks then in your opinion?

Not sure what the average American is, but every American I’ve spoken to seemed to like it there.

Someone told me trump is “pro vax” is that not true?

Is wearing some legit respirator mask an option?

How did they discover he has this antibody? I don’t think that’s a standard part of testing anywhere

Where in Europe are you from? Cause Im from Europe and i feel like this is just a human trait. To answer your question though, america is basically the center of the world for a lot of people, and they truly do think america is better than the rest of the world. That’s probably why.

Also no chickens (usually)

I get the front garden but the back garden too?

Why do I feel like living in an apartment would be better in that case (if u can’t find an older house)

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It’s a yikes from me