• RightHandOfIkaros@lemmy.worldBanned from community
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    2 years ago

    Thats just code for “I am jealous that your hobby makes you happy.”

    That’s a massive red flag.

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      2 years ago

      And when you have that miserable attitude long enough, it starts to feel wrong when your OWN hobbies or activities make you happy.

      It sounds simple, but that shit runs deep when you’re raised in it.

    • 1985MustangCobra@lemmy.ca
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      2 years ago

      I don’t know about that, there are other hobbies people participate in that women find “attractive”. So far my hobbies of video games and programming have scared away any partners…