•It’s his job to carry her body into the house as she goes limp.
•It’s his job to undress her.
Uhhhh… feeling a little rapey at this point.
I’ve been with chicks that didn’t seem to care if they came, because they weren’t able or willing to articulate what they wanted in bed. If she doesn’t care, why should I? It starts eroding your ability to trust women after awhile. What else won’t you talk to me about? What other problems are brewing that you’re going to explode at me later? What else can I just not take your word for because you won’t just talk to me? If this isn’t what you want, what DO you want, and what is your plan on getting it? What is this sex eventually going to cost me?
Also, are you asking the women about these things or are you getting mad that they won’t tell you on their own?
Yeah sex with women always does. For all the bitching about consent you hear, they hate actually communicating it in the moment. Best case scenario, it’s that passivity again; she wants to “be taken.” When’s the last time you heard a woman describe a sexual fantasy that involved an exchange of permission?
Also, are you asking the women about these things or are you getting mad that they won’t tell you on their own?
Both. I’ve asked a lot of women questions they evade or outright ignore. Especially about sex. Also, FUCK YES I’m mad they won’t communicate on their own. Women are people, right? Sometimes I’m not so sure, we can’t ever hold them to “people” level standards of accountability, like saying what your intentions are in a relationship under her own power.
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Uhhhh… feeling a little rapey at this point.
Also, are you asking the women about these things or are you getting mad that they won’t tell you on their own?
Yeah sex with women always does. For all the bitching about consent you hear, they hate actually communicating it in the moment. Best case scenario, it’s that passivity again; she wants to “be taken.” When’s the last time you heard a woman describe a sexual fantasy that involved an exchange of permission?
Both. I’ve asked a lot of women questions they evade or outright ignore. Especially about sex. Also, FUCK YES I’m mad they won’t communicate on their own. Women are people, right? Sometimes I’m not so sure, we can’t ever hold them to “people” level standards of accountability, like saying what your intentions are in a relationship under her own power.