It means they’re having bareback sex and the man orgasms while inside her.
It should not be tolerated at the workplace. I’m forced to listen to this rhetoric because my shift isn’t done yet, and I can’t leave without getting fired. I’m forced into a sexual discussion without consent, and it’s so graphically disgusting that I feel nauseous.
You’re a gay man with the same level of prudishness that makes conservatives not even want to allow you to be able to hold hands in public with your partner.
Congratulations on the unpopular opinion, but your levels of self-awareness need A LOT of work.
OP is definitely a virgin, and very likely an incel. Also a high chance that OP is gay. It’s okay, you can come out of the closet.
OP mentions being gay and sexually active in comments from over a day ago. So you’re kinda 0 for 3, since I don’t think accusing an out gay person of being closeted counts as accurate.
“I put a thick load in my wife last night”
“My husband cums inside me all the time now”
I think these are way worse
they mean the same thing though
Yes, but usually people share this with only close ones and not publicly. I think it is okay to be gross with close people.
I would also jump to the first conclusion that OP is oversexualizing stuff, but on the other hand, there are many other ways to give the information which doesn’t induce pictures in brains od people who are very visually oriented. “We hope/plan to have kids in the near future/soon/within a year or two”.
Same as we don’t need to know people have blasting diarrhea, enough to say they have digestive problems or stomach pain.
But how is “we hope to have kids soon” any different to “we’re trying for a baby”? Both implies they (are going to) have sex. And both isn’t the same as “my husband is gonna cum inside me this weekend and we’re thinking brezel dip since we don’t enjoy missionary that much I just don’t get that stimulated since his penis is on the smaller side but also I should be lying down right? I mean we are usually the doggy type of people but that’s just not that good for the sperm to travel up the vag. But with missionary his dick just tends to slip out and if that happens right before orgasm and we lose all the jizz this cycle is gonna be done for. So we’re gonna go for some obazda if you know what I’m saying”
I personally already have graphic images when I just hear people talking about their kids. That means these people did it at least the number of times they have children. My mind automatically goes there. But that’s my problem, no one is pulling their dick out and no one is telling me anything graphic.
Because “We are trying for a baby” gives the “we fuck right now every moment we can” vibe, while “we hope to have kids soon” gives the “we have sex just like any other couple in the world, we just don’t use protection” vibe.
If you are discusted by “we plan to have kids soon” you might aswell be discusted by the fact people have sex in general. In that case you simply have an oversexualized mind and the problem really isn’t anymore in what words people use because any words will trigger you. You do notice women walk around with breasts. So discusting.
I don’t get the “we fuck all the time” vibe from hearing “we are trying for a baby”, but maybe because I’ve seen the reality of it; most people who are trying for a baby are informed enough to know that you don’t need to go wild most of the month, and most people have been together for quite some time and have stressful day to day lives that don’t allow (lust, time, and energy wise) for fucking all the time.
Usually “we are trying for a baby” implies they stopped using contraceptives and are tracking the cycle to fuck once or twice within the fertile window. It’s not that different from regular sex within a long term relationship. (If trying for a baby makes you go wild and you fuck like bunnies every day for months on end more power to you though!)
But then again I am not disgusted by the idea of people having sex or bodily fluids. If they share TMI I’m usually just like “nice” or “good for you!” and enjoy the fact that they are open enough and we are close enough for me to hear details about their private life.
That being said, why would anyone at work share that they are trying for a baby to begin with? Work environment usually doesn’t welcome pregnancy - it implies more sick leave, parental leave, and more emergency days off once the kid is older. Just saying “one day I’d like to start a family” makes you a less attractive person for a position. So I would always imply that I don’t want kids, I don’t want a family, I don’t even like kids and I am infertile.
It’s a euphemism designed to avoid explicit detail. You should be thankful for the phrase.
Also, it’s one of the most natural things imaginable, maybe work on understanding your own sensitivity rather than bringing other people down for being human.
By OP’s logic, you shouldn’t be able to tell anyone you are pregnant or that you have children because that eludes to the fact that at one point you’ve had sex. Next HR is going to remove the bathrooms from the office, because it assumes that people are pissing somewhere.
You probably also shouldn’t mention that you have a mother or a father because that forces OP to picture your parents doing the deed to make you. Same goes for siblings and grandparents.
I agree, knowing other people have sex is absolutely fine, in fact I assume it as default for basically any adult in a relationship. Not using protection may be unwise in almost all cases, but trying for a baby with a partner is the main exception, and it’s never been gross.
I understand that a lot of people have been raised with shame, and I feel a certain pity for them, but I’m not a fan of treating this shame as righteous.
Literally every human being around you exists because of sex. Imagine being creeped out by existing.
I’m disgusted for existing, but not because sex exists…
Grow up love, your dad shot a fucking red hot load into your mum and thats why you’re here. 21st century ridiculousness. Very unpopular opinion have an upvote.
red hot
You should see a doctor…
This is a truly US level of being uncomfortable with the basic fact of life.
Us Suburban cutlure breeds this shite
Yeah, in the city we fuckin
In the countryside, we fucken too
Bro, how do you think human life works? This is natural, sorry you are sensitive by very tame terminology. Perhaps you should talk to someone about why a necessary natural process causes you so much turmoil. I get that this is a workplace but is it too much to ask to allow for some personal freedom rather than sitting quietly working as a bot all day for your corporate overlords?
Based on the name of the community and the responses I’ve seen here, this is exactly the right place for this opinion.
I don’t disagree, I was just offering some perspective.
“I’m going to the bathroom” is sexually graphic, and disgusting.
It means ejecting urine and or feces from the body and it finishes in the toilet.
It should not be tolerated at the workplace. I’m forced to listen to this rhetoric because my shift isn’t done yet, and I can’t leave without getting fired. I’m forced into a sexual discussion without consent, and it’s so graphically disgusting that I feel nauseous.
I am very happy to see, reading the responses, that this is indeed an unpopular opinion. You sound quite squeamish and prudish. The couple is already presumably having sex, why in the world does it bother you that they acknowledge (with a completely not graphic euphemistic comment) that they want a baby? It’s not a sexual comment.
Upvoted for unpopularity.
I think it’s a common opinion in childfree circles. anything to dunk on “natalists”.
Fantastic unpopular opinion. Post is work of a scholar.
Yeah… OP is a clown but the post is actually proper for the community haha
Good job!
Why are you upset? I think you’re mad because gay people don’t want to hear about straight sex practices. Please answer this question.
Are they going into detail about their sex or did they just say they were trying to have a baby?
If it’s only the latter then it’s about as inappropriate as women showing their bare ankles in public and you may be overreacting just a tad.
ETA: please answer this question.
Lol wat?
The sentiment is anti social. If you don’t want hear people talking about something, go stand somewhere else.
I highly doubt anybody holding you still and forcing you to hear about all that disgusting heterosexual sex.
It would be weird for someone to randomly walk out of their office.
How small is this “office”
It’s not his fault he’s in a neighboring cubicle
He should deff go to HR and let them know how he feels 🤣
Pff dude you think when you say that you are gay, that you have a pure platonic relationship where you wear gloves to hold hands?
Were you immaculately conceived? Or did your parents try for a baby?
Look at the up and down votes. You did it, OP <3
The phrase “we’re trying for a baby” communicates the intent to start a family without eliciting unwanted images of raw dog cream pies. That is why we use it. If you are having these thoughts about your coworkers from this phrase, I submit that you are the problem.
No offense, but there is a point at which others aren’t at fault and the behavior you’re asking of them is ridiculous.
I’m a gay man. If I said to you, “my boyfriend has bareback anal sex with me and cums in my ass” at work, would you find it work-appropriate? Please answer.
False equivalency here, gay bro. Words mean things. Your original example was a euphemism, not graphic detail. Then you equated it with graphic detail, not euphemism. Most of the time, when people say they’re “trying for a baby” (sorry, was that too graphic for you?) the meaning is more than “We’re having vaginal sex.” it’s also “We’re being intentional, have discussed it together, decided we both want it, and are excited about being parents.” Furthermore, there is a possibility that this couple has struggled to have kids for vairous reasons, and are still determined. Maybe go have more gay sex and let your orgasms calm you down, gay bro.
What do I even reply to this?
Me personally and genuinely, would reply with “ok.” or “cool.” and that would be it.
False equivalency, obviously.
That being said your mindset is literally the mindset the homophobes have… Hearing the words “gay couple” means having to think about homosexuals and causes them discomfort and they want it gone. You literally just identifying as a gay man makes them think of exactly what you typed out there.
“I’m a gay man” might already elicit the image you paint in some people.
So not that different.They aren’t saying that, though. It’s the equivalent of you saying “my boyfriend and I are going on a cruise.”
Your example was “we’re trying for a baby”, not literally your first sentence in your post.
You are also able to use the euphemism. A queer couple can say “we are trying for a baby” to refer to the process of adopting or ivf or anything like that.
Hell, the hetero couple could be in that position where unassisted pregnancy isn’t viable and are looking for the same alternatives.
We also use “I’m trying for a baby” as a euphemism for sex. In fact, my favorite euphemism is “just dropping the kids off at the pool”
That’s a euphamism for shitting.
“not trying for a baby, just through the motions.”
Why are kids these days such prudes? How do you think you got here lol.
Even the Victorian era thinks you might be a prude.
