stfu

;)

Most policing of other people’s behavior is for your own personal benefit, so whatever makes it most likely for the autistic person to behave in the desired way is the “right way” to call it.

Shame and being ostracized are just ways to make sure no one else falls out of line.

It’ll continue until it stops working. We need to be individually brave and support each other against stuff like this, and I think all will turn out fine :)

Stop having a goal with women specifically. You talking about experience and success with women is literally the total opposite of what makes sense.

Just have fun with a person. You have had fun interacting with people before, right? Just do that. The literal only difference is that you can sprinkle in some sexual innuendos or some shit, if you think of it. If not, also fine. Then go home and resume what you always do. Repeat.

If while doing this you ever notice some sexual tension, just do something sexual. Touch them. Or tell them you find them attractive. Or ask to kiss them. Whatever, it literally doesn’t matter. If they don’t like it, you’ll likely notice because they tell you and then you can do something different. If they like it, you’ll also likely notice, and continue escalating from there. Touching platonic -> kissing -> making out hair/neck/back-> touching sexually titties/butt -> touching pussy. Natural progression.

If you notice something afterwards, while thinking about it (like someone giving you obvious signals that you completely missed), if you can, just respond to the signal as soon as you notice, don’t think “now it’s too late”. In fact, it’s never to late until you tried it and it didn’t work.

But yeah, I can’t stress this enough. The most important thing is to not expect anything. In fact, maybe you’ll never have sexual contact again. It’s best if you’re content with nothing but masturbating for the rest of your life.

I mean you can just ventilate whenever you spill something.

The larger problem would be the entire water-based ecosystem.

There’s constant mentions about “I read your report”, so yes, I assume they communicate most routine things by mail.

Binding the interface is definitely the recommended way to go about it, it was in some manual when I first informed myself about torrenting. But it’s not required and easy to miss if you don’t consume correct resources, it’s not obvious.

I feel that OP has only talked about what his GF can not do, and not at all about what they can’t do.

I’m joking but I kinda have a point. It seems to me like you both just gotta chill and not worry too much.

HTML/CSS/JS is just a possible frontend technology. It doesn’t really matter if your frontend is written in that or written in Qt or whatever. What matters in the end is that the developers are good ones. If the developers suck, the frontend will suck.

There aren’t many good developers.

With the “Edit:” this reads like you’re the one with the communication issues xD

Was about to say… “said by an Instagram model who eats 1 grape a day”

They really should have robbed him for $1 less.

There is no other reason to do it like this in a Lemmy post other than you want to publicly discredit the devs somehow. This is quite obviously a mistake and not a way to harvest admin passwords. Just fixing it and not trying to stir up shit would have been the right thing to do.

OP managed to find the bug. He knows how to fix it. Obviously he’d know how to make an issue about it, and probably even know how to contribute his fix that he already made in the official way to the open source project.

You do not possess these skills so obviously you’re not the one who should make the issue.

Yet he decided to somehow create this public post highlighting something that could be sketchy to try to publicly discredit the devs. There is no other reason to do it like this.

Why make a Lemmy post about this and not just a GitHub issue?

It’s just much more profitable for record labels to have a few superstars than thousands of mini-stars. A usual person won’t follow and buy from 100 music artists. They’ll buy from 1 to 10 or whatever. Having large fandoms allows you to sell more tertiary things like plush toys and shit like that, it wouldn’t be feasible to do that for thousands of artists.

Large fandoms also make people feel like they belong, when there’s a Swiftie fanclub in any small town with dozens of people there’s a community, if only 1 person in a town were a fan of a specific artist, even if there’s 1 in every town, the networking effect would just be basically nonexistent.

And in general there’s just too many amazing musicians. People love making music and as such there’s an oversupply. In addition to the above points that’s just capitalist supply and demand in play.

Just don’t use repacks like this, the original package is fine. Bandwidth is often free if you get a torrent, no need to save a few hundred MBs with ridiculously CPU intensive compression algorithms.

Well, it’s not “growing” per se, but we produce fertilizers which are “plant food”, so you could say we grow food for our food even for plants.

I just don’t see the point of complaining and trying to change your current partner. People should be who they are and not change majorly for anyone else.

You should do something with your life.

Counterpoint: this word “should” and this whole expectation is very toxic. There is no need to “do something with your life”. If you’re fine where you are now and how your life is going, then you should keep doing that. Many people want to somehow instill a yearning in you to “get more”, but there must be a limit sometime right? You can’t always have more? Maybe this is just your point to stop, and you should have a partner who’s also fine with this and doesn’t suddenly want you to change.