• Spacehooks@reddthat.com
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    4 days ago

    She could have but she didnt. Same reason most people wouldn’t. When something happens like that you freeze up for just a second. Id 100% know I would because it has happened to me plenty of times. Know what gives enough time to realize what is happening and take correct action? Lock the door and wear a seatbelt. Good parents should have taught her that.

    Crime requires victim. No one was injured or intended to be injured. No one was verbally attacked. My brother pull me out couch? Probably kick to balls and laughs. Robber intent on harm to get what they want? Very much assault. Difference here was intent. If that means nothing to you then we will disagree on most things crime related. Because why is always more important than what to me. Especially when judging others for their actions.

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        2 days ago

        One of us has repeated attacked the other.

        • immediately began accusations before gathering more information.
        • Accused One of using fear of an individual to instill a sense of self preservation. In which I could write a paper on how silly that is.
        • confused codependency with basic empathy and a being sympathetic ear.
        • repeatability Mentioned being capable of murdering someone they consider a sibling without a second thought.
        • Bring in topics irrelevant to the conversation to defame the others character
        • assaulted the characters of others in their life.

        Id ask that you think about the kind of people use these tactics. Id recommend someone like that have self reflection before being the thing they push away potential allies instead of bringing people together.

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          Lol oh you poor wittle baby can’t handle being “attacked” aka correctly identified as a physical abuser? Gee you poor little tiny guy, now imagine if she’d taken you to court and you got sentenced. They’d have read all that out and more, and maybe even got put on a list and your right to vote taken away, if not shot immediately out of self defense. Imagine being “attacked” so thoroughly in a cpurt of law as you deserve. Because again, you are guilty of assault and possibly battery by your own words. You confessed already, proudly, like a wifebeater in front of his trailer bragging to the cop through his two teeth. You are an abuser and a piece of shit. I don’t want to bring you together or to any part of society - go live in Slab City with the other abusers. Go away. May you never touch another woman in your life again. May no woman hold an affectionate thought towards you. May you never have a woman’s love directed at you. My curse to you. Shouldn’t have hurt her, and you should’ve admitted you did wrong and apologized.

          Feel bad? Good, you should. Bring shame back when you do something fucked up. Embarrassment, guilt. And if nothing else, a sense of fear that people like me will see you for who you are - an abuser - and we won’t give you peace. I hope you hate yourself, you should, you’re garbage.

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            9 hours ago

            Handle it is not the issue as much as it looks like you are intentionally being rigid, vindictive, and personal. like the lot that sees smoke from a BBQ and calls the fire department and refuses to see a problem with it. The experience is quite fascinating really. All this anger, curses, and such is worth it? No one is being avenged here. No one is suffering and crying out for retribution. For what exactly is there gain with that mentality and energy?

            No I dont hate myself over this. Why? She moved back in with us the following year. Had 2 years of being bffs until she found love and moved across the planet. I even Got invited to her wedding. I have long term data that really invalidates any thing you say because no one involved cared then or now.