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Cake day: October 25th, 2025

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  • You’re right about emotional baggage and I could have been clearer. I don’t want someone who’s perfect or emotionally unavailable, just someone who’s not dealing with as much as I am. It might seem entitled or whatever but there are plenty of disabled people who are married to non disabled people.

    I would also make an effort to fix myself, mask, and not be a burden. Both partners have to be accommodating.






  • God does not want anyone to contribute to the suffering of disabled people. Suffering can be a test from God, but He does not want anyone to be cruel to anyone who suffers, even sinners. He wants us to save them by inviting them to the true path. God will reward us for enduring suffering without being broken by it. He will also not burden a soul beyond what it can bear.

    Holding a grudge is like lighting yourself on fire and expecting the other person to burn. Objects of hatred become idols. By hating people who did terrible things to you, you are turning your worship away from God and choosing to wallow in your own pain. Nothing that you do will ever undo anything that was done to you. The best that you can do is forgive them and stop letting them have power over you. You can punish them by living as your fullest authentic self in spite of them. There are evil people who will get away with it in this life and it’s pointless and tragic to damn yourself by hating them. By hating and obsessing, you’re giving your tormentors power over you even if they’re dead.

    God and His path are the only things that can take away your suffering. By choosing religion, you aren’t choosing a lie, you’re choosing the way, the truth, and the light.

    I won’t pretend that you’ll never suffer. Life is suffering, but God can take away the pain. There are people who are severely disabled and were constantly denied justice, but they are happier than people who live extremely comfortable lives.











  • Being objectified and harassed sucks, but I still disagree. Dealing with creeps sucks, but you’re far better off being attractive as a man or a woman than being ugly or plain. I’m on the spectrum and I’m certainly at risk of being exploited, but if you’re an unattractive autistic male, you’re severely disabled and you have a monumental struggle ahead of you. I still believe that disadvantaged males and incels don’t have enough empathy for girls who are attractive. We might be able to get dates but we also have to deal with serious predators who will abuse us once we’re alone.

    If you’re an unattractive autistic male, you’re going to be completely screwed for jobs. I have older friends who work and they got hired at the same time as girls their age and they got dumped into jobs like bagging and denied promotion because they aren’t attractive and they’re denied social skills.

    The dangers that come with being an attractive girl are literally life threatening but it’s still understandable why there are boys who think that it’s worth it from their perspective.