But it’s a basic photo… I mean it’s not like my titties were out ! Or that I was in a bikini !

I’m trying to understand what were his intentions though. Like, what was his best possible outcome? That I would say “hey here is what they look like”?! It’s really weird. I don’t get. And he is a smart guy normally

You are totally right and I’m mad at myself for having written that. I replied too quickly. She thinks I wanted to engage on a chat about the size of my titties 😓

Thanks for the detailed opinion. Just clarifying that my sister is mad for the part where I say I’m not hiding much, for her it was a willingness to engage in a talk about my breast size 🙄

Thank you! He met my sister when I was 12yo so I see him as an older brother for me. This is what makes me sad as I feel, in hindsight, that he clearly wanted me to start talking about my body somehow