You should give it more time. You are a young, new farmer, and as such, it’s supposed to suck. You’re learning a new trade in a strange place. The game evolves to a point long before the end game where energy doesn’t matter, and the tedious tasks are handled. You will have plenty of time to go do the things you would rather focus on.
That being said, if it’s not your thing, then that’s cool too!
Enjoy the game or don’t, I really couldn’t care less.