My Spanish teacher used to say:

• if you speak Spanish and French you already know 80% of Italian.

• If you speak Italian, Spanish and French, you already speak Portuguese.

And I have found this to be mostly true. Native French speaker, good Spanish: I can read 80% of any Italian text I come across.

Oh, and don’t forget Romanian is also very close.

He was enormous at birth, if I remember correctly.

Please go and see a doctor about this. You may have a medical condition (endometriosis or other) that makes penetrative sex extremely painful.

That does not mean you cannot enjoy sex, but it is important to get clarity on this before you do anything else.

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